As a modern day disconnected family, “you decide, as a tonic to go on a camping trip—a pit-latrine-and-flame-cooked-wieners experience uncorrupted by phones, faxes or Baywatch. In the absence of electronic distractions, you will get to know each other again”. Kalle Lasn uses this example of how a failing family tries to reconnect. To me this seems like a reasonable way that my own family would reconnect if we had to, but for the family used in the explanation, the outcome was not as good as they had hoped. Lasn followed stating, “After only a few hours in the wilderness, though, it becomes clear that you don’t know how to do this. You might as well have been shot into deep space, so psychologically ill-equipped are you for the enforced camaraderie of the outside world.” If I am going to be completely honest while writing these blogs I am obligated to say that this book truly pisses me off. It is a complete generalization and over exaggeration of the modern day family. My family is incredibly close and has not been torn an inch apart because of the new “addictions” to technology. We have dinner multiple times a week and during those times, there is never silence. We talk just like we did prior to the daily use of computers and cell phones. At college, I talk to my mom and dad every other day if not every single day. I would not be able to if it wasn’t for facebook or my phone. Every negatively bias person says that technology is disconnecting people from nature or the “real world”. I personally think that cell phones, internet, and computers are a positive cultural change. I feel more connected to my family and friends than I have ever been.
I’m not good with names but I remember someone stating in class that the idea of plentitude was completely embraced by all Americans. First off I’d like to start by saying that America isn’t the only country with technology and fast food. “Americans do this, Americans do that”. No offense but none of the foreign exchange students that I have met have ever had to “adapt” to the way Americans live. The world is changing, not just America. Yeah, I agree that we want more than what is needed, but we are not the only ones.
This entire book is dedicated to critiquing how much Americans are screwing everything up. Everything I have read in this book has been opinions. I did not read one actual percentage of how many American families are failing, or how many kids would rather watch a movie than read an actual book. The chapters that we read in this book are completely generalized and I found it borderline insulting that every single opinion Kalle Lasn gave on the American lifestyle was negative.
I'm with you on this one. This book is REAAAALLY irritating. I didn't think much about the fact that he was only critiquing America, but you present an excellent point: exchange students don't seem to have much difficulty fitting into our culture because where they live the culture isn't much different. I have yet to meet an exchange student without a cell phone.
ReplyDeleteFirst. I'm glad you're irritated. It means you're thinking :) Second, I'll irritate you a little more: I would venture to guess if I asked for a show of hands in our own class--as a "microcosm" of American society itself--how many spend their free time reading vs. texting or tv-watching, the outcome would not be that shocking.
ReplyDeleteMy challenge to you is to work through your irritation. *Why* is it that you are responding so strongly to Lasn's assertions. Are they all really that dead wrong, or is that tiny, glimmering sliver of truth just getting under your skin? :)
Sorry to be a rash. I love what you're starting here though.
I very much agree that this book doesn't support it's claims nearly enough. I also agree that this book is on the borderline of exaggeration a lot of the time however it's an exaggeration of something that is real and true. I personally don't feel nearly as close of attached to someone when i text, video chat, or email them. It's just not the same and it doesn't fulfill that need I have to be interacting with any particular person. I feel less detached from the mass of people I would have to interact with on a daily basis because all the interacting happens here on the internet. I would probably know everybody from our peer group much better if this conversation had to happen in person.
ReplyDeleteTaylor I definitly agree with you on the fact that technology is not all bad. I get homesick really easy and I really feel like facebook and cellphones help me deal with it. Facebook keeps me updated on what is happening back home and I call and talk to my family alot as well.Its all in how you use the technology for what you could honestly use it for and not abusing it and not letting it run your life.It really is all about self control and using it for things that are beneficial to yourself. Also I know what you mean with your family not being seperated by technology but at the same time I feel that my family is greatly affected sometimes in a bad way. My sister is constantly hanging out in her room by herself watching TV and using facebook and I don't know her as well as I used; I think technology is sort of to blame. I guess it all depends on your situation.
ReplyDeleteI don't think technology is bad. It lets us know what's going on with the world and the places around us. I think its only bad when you let technology consume you. I agree that the book is a bunch of generalizations and opinions that aren't completely true about everyone.
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